–By F. Guzzardi–
What beliefs do, the certainties of the mind?
Well, they prevent our ongoing wisdom, from healing us; sometimes we expect something to change in our life, we think about it and almost always we end up filling ourselves with guilt, we end up looking more than anything else, the things that have not gone well and we are convinced that, our existence is all useless.
It will always be the same but in this way, we get sick; when our abilities are not used, they turn into disturbances but the ways of the psyche are mysterious, the turning point come from a moment to the othe,r and sometimes it comes after a pain, after a discomfort; it is the resources that secretly pulsate within us, the hidden talents suddenly take to the field, is the most important thing, torment ourselves with memories, we must not even listen to the opinion of others, their advice, because within us, there are our Talents!
There is the unconscious, there is a psychotherapist gentleman who leads us in the waves of life, and then we must always have faith that things can change and we must understand that, many of our contrasts, many of our contradictions, are necessary for our development; to bring out our abilities, that if they do not come out and are not used, they will transform into disorders.
You see, sometimes conflicts, obsessions, tormented relationships, serve us; we need them to prepare for the development of our personality, for the turning point to arrive for free ourselves from our contradictions; not in our anxieties or fears, but we must accept them, we must also respect our neurosis because, behind the neurosis, there is precisely the expression form of the neurosis. In reality, an undeveloped component of our personality is hidden which a precious fragment of the psyche, and is precisely that unexpressed talent.
We must not think that our childhood has marked forever our existence but we must always expect that new creative forces, take the field and lead us to a turning point that can reach on any age.
So let’s ask ourselves what triggers the birth of new ways of being; as I said only by moving away from the usual habits, from the usual relationships in which they always tell us the same things, are moving away from the usual thoughts. The rejuvenating regenerating energy of the unconscious, spontaneously comes out, unexpectedly, in an unpredictable way, a little disturbing but it comes out when we cultivate new things and so, if everyone is, let’s say, an energy field there is always something around that acts, as an echo and sometimes, this can be an encounter, it can be synchronicity in them, and sometimes it can be a meeting, a book, a film, a walk that makes us open the eyes on what we have forgotten about ourselves. If our abilities are not used, we are transformed into gods, we cannot forget ourselves and we must not change anything but we simply have to acknowledge that it is, a sprout and our task is to open the door for it, because you must know that, we often caged ourselves because the new one scares us and so… you don’t see.